Online Dating for Introverts: Making Meaningful Connections

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I had a guy tell me he had feelings for me and I said “Thank you”. Daaaaaamn, that was ice cold. You brought up a good point. I too have a hard time accepting compliments from men. I question the intention of it or sometimes, certain things lose value like “pretty”. What does that mean? N*gga, I’m SMART. lol

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13Panama Jackson July 18, 2011 at 11:07 am
don’t feel bad. i’ve done this. had a chick call me to meet her out somewhere once and then spill her feelings…all i could muster was “thank you”

she went her way and i went mine. ain’t seent her since.

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14rnic July 18, 2011 at 2:35 pm
“I question the intention of it or sometimes, certain things lose value like “pretty”.”

Co-sign this. I have issues with accepting excessive or repeated compliments from people in general within like a 30 second-5 minute time frame. I feel like there’s only so many ways and so many times within that time slot that you can say thank you before it starts sounding a)fake b)presumptuous or c)awkward because you run out of things to say after you say thank you and end up standing there in awkward silence…lol.

“Something as innocent as “Hey, you always have the nicest pencils.” could (and probably would) be interpreted by most men as “Hey, I have some space in my vagina that I need for you to fill.”

That pretty much sums it up. Guys take one compliment like women take 2 compliments when we feel our outfit/hair/new shoulder pads/elbow implants warrant 20 instead. Neither gender knows how to act.

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15SmartFoxGirl July 18, 2011 at 2:50 pm
TRUTH.COM! You pretty much summed up my reasoning why I’m wary on giving compliments to men. Some men hear what they want to hear and ANYTHING can be perceived as a greenlight to pursue a woman. It’s a slippery slope. Not to get too serious but there are men raping women out here just for smiling at him and making small talk. Women should really be careful when talking to strange men.
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